It would be a chauvinistic thing to state that it is common for women to stay in abusive relationships but it is true to certain degree. This is because women talk about their relationship problems. For men it is more or less a taboo to accept that their ‘women’ abuse them. In a society where the man is the protector, the fighter and provider; the fact that he may get beaten, talked down at or get cheated on does not fit....read more

There are so many times I have sat and thought about what kind of relationship I’d like to have at my age.  What kind of man I would like to meet, and believe me when you do get to my spectacular age; the bar is raised even higher.  There is simply no time to be messing about!  As a woman you want to meet that man who was raised to say “no thanks, yes please, that was a lovely meal thank you, oh you sit and I’ll clear off the table…..”

The truth is men like that do exist.  They are out there and walking tall, dark and handsome, as you can ever imagine....read more

A Beautiful Disaster

By Lily T

The moment my eyes fell on you, I was content. My heart stood still. My tongue fell silent.  
You were dark, tall and well built... the type of guy who would make heads turn on Wisteria Lane. You were, um, beautiful.

The way you walked, talked, laughed, and oh that twinkle in your eyes, it was all enthralling.....read more